My Rotary Youth Exchange in New Zealand
In one year, one's life can bring great changes, however in exchange this is intensified as you must build a life from scratch.
To me a youth exchange was a way to find myself and my place in society. By going some place new you must put yourself outside of your comfort zone, and try new things every day. You meet many people that are here to help you. They give you their time and affection so you can have the best experience. They welcome you to their country, into their life and into their homes.
This exchange year changes you in many ways as to make the most of it you have to push your own limits. The main thing I take from this exchange is that it gives you confidence. You learn to trust others as much as yourself. You get more independent but also get to understand that sometimes you need help, and there will always be someone to help.
Lots of people say that an exchange year makes you grow up, I believe that it is partly true, but it is mostly because you understand everything better so you have a different opinion and way to approach different situations.
Before coming to New Zealand, I was a little shy. I knew that when I arrived I had to leave this timidity at the airport. It was hard but little by little I did it. I started going to people to meet them and not wait for them to talk to me; I made public speeches in front of Rotarians and school assemblies. Such things would not have been possible if I had not been supported by an amazing Rotary club who gave me many opportunities. They allowed me to take part in their activities, both within the club or for charities.
I also found out that I really enjoyed helping others and that is why when I came back to France after my exchange I joined the Rotex club of my district. We organise activities for inbounds as well as future outbounds. It has allowed me to continue my exchange for a little longer.
However, the best choice I have made since I got home was joining a Rotaract club. In it I found the social aspect I had discovered in my Rotary club, and I get to serve the community again.
If I had to describe how my exchange year changed me I would say that it gave me the confidence and boldness to take different life decisions, those I wanted without being influenced in any way. It taught me to make my own opinion and believe in it.
An exchange is a way to empower yourself with knowledge and understanding.
Alyssa Jutau, Rotary Exchange Student, 2015-2016